Place de-stemmed lilac petals (and optional blueberries) in a quart mason jar.
Bring water to boil. Pour over flowers. Cover loosely with cloth. Steep 24 hours at room temperature or refrigerated after 4 hours.
Strain the tea through a fine mesh strainer or cheesecloth, pressing to extract all the liquid. You need about 3½ to 4 cups.
Pour strained tea into a large saucepan. Add lemon juice. Watch the color change and try not to squeal.
Pre-measure sugar and set it aside.
Bring tea and lemon mixture to a boil. Slowly add pectin, stirring constantly to dissolve.
Return to a full rolling boil and boil for 1 minute, stirring the entire time.
Add sugar all at once. Stir to dissolve.
Bring back to a rolling boil. Boil 1–2 minutes, stirring constantly.
Remove from heat. Skim foam.
Ladle into prepared jars, leaving ¼ inch headspace. Wipe rims. Cap with two-part lids.
For canning: Process in water bath canner for 10 minutes (15 minutes above 6,000 ft). Cool undisturbed 24 hours. Check seals.
For fridge jelly: Cool to room temperature, then refrigerate. Allow 24 hours for full set.